Hey you, Hi!!
Remember last week when I told you about those two little words that were changing everything?
Well, buckle up friend, because today we’re diving DEEP into why this is so freaking powerful (and why it feels so scary at first).
Here’s what I’m learning about letting go of control (and why it’s hitting HOME for so many of you who replied last week):
Most of the stress we’re carrying? It’s not actually about what’s happening. It’s about our resistance to what’s happening.
WOWZERS – let that sink in for a minute.
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When you “Let Them” do whatever it is that they want to do, it creates more control and emotional peace for you and a better relationship with the people in your life.
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Think about it:
- When someone doesn’t get your vision? Let them.
- When your family makes choices you wouldn’t? Let them.
- When people misunderstand your intentions? Let them.
- When things don’t go according to plan? Let them.
(I know, I know – I had to sit with these too. No judgment here!)
But here’s what’s blowing my mind the most…
This isn’t about giving up or not caring (promise).
It’s about finally putting down that heavy backpack of trying to manage everyone and everything around us.
UGH!! Why didn’t someone explain it like this before?
The truth? (And this is the part that changed everything for me)
- You can care deeply AND let go
- You can have high standards AND release the death grip
- You can lead powerfully AND let others own their path
Maybe you’re thinking “But Tonya, what if everything falls apart?”
(Yeah, I went there too – remember, late bloomer here!)
But here’s what happens when you loosen your grip: You start breathing easier. Your relationships get deeper. Life feels lighter. And maybe for the first time, you actually enjoy the ride.
Think about it: When was the last time controlling every detail actually brought you peace? (Take your time, I’ll wait right here…)
Hit reply and tell me – what’s ONE thing you’re ready to “Let Them” about? I read every email and I would love to hear how this is landing for you!
Keep your eyes on your inbox-
→ What’s Coming Up: Next week: “From Let Them to Let Me” – This is where everything shifts. The simple way to take your power back (without the overwhelm).
XOXO
Tonya Kay
Coach * Speaker * Realtor
Boise, Idaho
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3 Ways to Elevate Your Life (For Real) → Ready to release the grip of control and finally breathe easier? Let’s create a life that feels as good as it looks. Email me: hello@tonyakay.co
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