Ghosted? 👻 Here’s What’s Actually Happening (And Why It’s Rarely About You)
Ghosted? Here’s What’s Actually Happening (And Why It’s Rarely About You) Hey friend, hi Have you ever been ghosted? Yeah, me too. Want to know why you keep replaying that last conversation, looking for the thing you said wrong? Because blaming yourself is easier than facing the truth: sometimes people just disappear, and it has nothing to do with you. It happens with clients. It happens with friends. It happens with your own goals when you quietly stop showing up for them too. This isn’t…
You’ve met this person. You just didn’t know what they were doing.👀
The Skill Everyone Mistakes for Personality It’s not confidence. It’s not charisma. Hey, hi there, I’m going to jump right in, this is one of those things everyone thinks, but no one talks about….let’s dive in. Have you ever noticed ‘THAT’ person? Not the CEO. Not the most senior person in the room. The one who hasn’t said a word yet, and somehow everyone’s drawn to them. You’ve seen it, I know I have, dozens of times. A junior colleague in a meeting full of executives. Someone at a dinner…
Figured out? Ha. I’m brand new over here. 🔥
Figured out? Ha. I’m brand new over here. Hey friend, Hi! Let me tell you something nobody says out loud. People love to hand you this idea that by your late 50s you’ve arrived. Like you’ve got this beautiful, tidy little bow on your life and you’re just… coasting on wisdom. Yeah. No. Not even close! Here’s what’s actually true for me right now: Four years ago I blew up my career and started over. I added life coaching. I reinstated my real estate license, that I started back in 2002. I am…
[REAL TALK] Is It a Boundary; Or Are You Just Avoiding the Conversation?
BOUNDARY OR WALL? The Difference Between Protecting Yourself and Just… Hiding Hey friend, Let’s talk about something most people won’t say out loud. We’ve gotten really good at calling things boundaries. “I’m protecting my peace.” “I don’t do drama.” “They know what they did.” And sometimes? That’s exactly what’s happening. The boundary is real, necessary, and healthy. But sometimes? The boundary is just a wall. And the wall exists because a conversation never happened. There are two kinds…
WHAT SELF-CARE ACTUALLY MEANS A lesson I didn’t ask for… but needed
WHAT SELF-CARE ACTUALLY MEANS A lesson I didn’t ask for… but needed Hey friend, Can we have an honest conversation about self-care? Not the Instagram version. Not the bubble bath, green juice, morning walk kind. The real kind. The kind that finds you when life forces you to stop… whether you’re ready or not. (I’m a coach, a realtor, and someone who preaches self-care for a living… and just learned I was only half right.) Three weeks ago, I was rear-ended at a red light. Dead stop….
Six words that will change how you start every single day
Six words that will change how you start every single day Hey friend, hi! Can I ask you something personal? When you open your closet in the morning, what’s the first thing that runs through your head? For a lot of us it sounds like this: I have nothing to wear. Nothing fits right. Whatever. Same thing as yesterday. UGH! And then we grab whatever’s easiest and move on with our day. But here’s what nobody’s talking about: That moment, those first thirty seconds in front of your closet, is…